Monday, February 7, 2011

The Time frame and Life


“Life gives us lots of things.”we should be thankful to life whatever it has given to us. when we feel joy we use to forget how we got that. When we feel sorrow we use to forget how we got that. Life never do mathematics for whatever it give to us or whatever it takes from us. Sometime I use to think there is a complex logic by which we all used to be governed. We people are still equivalent to homosepiens in some way. We honored lots of knowledge,we have done lots of inventions but still we don't know what we want to know. It is usually because we have logic of GOD. Any way time will certainly solve this giver-doner puzzle.
In life there are certain axes which governs us,in other words set our position with respect to others. What we all do is analyze the life in own way and try to give direction to it. We put effort in something in someway and try to sense the outcome. Do we really get what we want in life? Do we become happy after the fulfillment of our dream? The answer is yes,we become happy but for how much time? Oh time is such a inhabitant that it use to take its account everywhere. This time-frame dependency was one of the critical question for me in 2008.
I was stuck in a question that I want a girlfriend in my life but the real problem is “will I continue to love that girl for the forthcoming years?” if I will do then for how much time? I asked this question and I was very clear that I am sure that I will not marry to the girl. Then what should I do? The obvious answer any one can say is “make good friends”. Then again I don't possess time to spent with friends because I use to have busy schedule made by me to fulfill my ambition of life. But I had time to spent with the girlfriend. I had reason for that.
1.friendship needs time.
2.it takes time to build a good friendship.
3.the emotional dependency is very less.
4.No one is so much committed to the friendship.
5.its doesn't creates feeling inside our heart.
6.the loving nature is very weak and uncommitted.


So I thought not to get involved in friendship. Although love and friendship has its own merits and demerits. I only thought about what suite for me. I have chosen “love”. But I have given some framework to my forthcoming love. I have done some commitments to myself. I made the promise to my self was if I believe that she really and really love ...i will never give up with her......

Narcissus And La Isla-The Soulmates



Narcissus, when ever I think about this person i felt extreme love for myself. Although some people has predicted lots of story of the love life of the Narcissus. what i felt is that he is such a character in the mythology, which gives so much virtual Excitement.if i will get chance to write a love story on Narcissus,i will do following imagination.
It was long before 8 AD,,there was a person named Narcissus in the deep forest of Thespiae in Boeotia.he was a hunter and exceptionally proud in the beauty of himself and disdained others.As divine punishment he fell in love with his own reflection in a pool, not realizing it was merely an image, and he wasted away to death, not being able to leave the beauty of his own reflection.

Now i want to travel away from the realty of the Narcissus'Life and going to frame the same Narcissus.i am going to add my self as the soul of Narcissus,although soul resides inside the human body but God Almighty has gifted Narcissus a soul which keeps some distance.because soul think that he may disdain the soul and laugh about the existance of the thing like soul.
The moment the soul inside the Narcissus started to keep a distane was a night of full Moon.it was raining deadly in the crippery forest of LonelyLand. this LolnlyLand is all about a single human being that was Narcissus.the whole forest produced the sweet and sower fruit to feed Narcissus,the air filled itself with the cool and fresh Air,the Sun use to give the pleasent sunlight which can make Narcissus happy, the birds sang the most pleasent song. Any way Narcissus didnt know this.the way he saw the world was that he is in the search of the Love of his life.the logic behind this faith is that on the very first day of his life he saw a dream and that was all about a Girl(Name of the girl was La Isla) ,who is in the search of Narcissus.
Narcissus never saw a person other than La Isla,and his heart's desire to see her live because he never saw a person through his blue Eyes.he never saw his own face also.Now its time to know how does he knew her name in the first dream of his life.

It was a lovly island on the bank of CIAO lake.the first ray of the sunlight just came to touch the lips of flowers.there is a girl sleeping in the brownish yellow stone.her left eye is semiclosed,right eye is fully closed.she can see the flowery garden and her eyes are still suspecting to have a morning or not. Two birds are talking about the girl that finaly both have fulfilled the dream to see a fairy.then their noise make her awake.then she started to stare towards the birds and she told" i am La Isla,i am the only girl in the forest of Lonely World.i am the most beautiful creation of the God.i am here to search my soulmate whose name is Narcissus"
in this way Narcissus knew that a girl named La Isla is in the search of Narcissus.and the beaty of the best creation of the God made him fell in Love.form that day of first dreaming he passed his all the day in the search of La Isla.not a single day he passed without thinking about herself.in the day or night whenever he felt sleeping his only desire to see La Isla in her dream.and it was the true love of the soulmates that made it happen that he meet with her in dream every night and in this way Narcissus passed his life.
Two soulmates have a mission/dream in their life to get their love.its the love which had given a dream to fulfill.its strange to feel how far a person can go in the search of his/her love.if Love is destiny then being destained to get the love is more admiring.now days people talk about Girlfriend/boyFriend and they contain their own explanations about how did they fell in love with a person.they talk about how they broked upand why they broked up.what makes someone happy and what make someone sorrow.thay talk about that they have lots of ambition in their life,they talk about how much they have got and how much is left.
With the growth of human society we are filled with too much explanations about too much things.wow....what a world now we have.if now days if everyone is only destined to get his soulmate then world will be more beautiful.that world is filled with the emotions inside our heart,that heart is filled with natural plasure which is more sensual.any way we are filled with only explanations and explanation about everything,we also have explanations about Nothing.
After passing lots of days in the search of La Isla ,one day Narcissus was very thristy and he wanted to drink the water.in the search of water he reached at the bank of CIAO Island.when he just put his hand inside the water he saw his face inside the water and he felt that the thing he is looking inside the water is so much beautiful that , He fell in love in himself and he forgotton his thrist of water,from that moment he never liked to saw any thing other than the beauty inside the water.and days are passed only this way......
in between that La Isla was also in the search of Narcissus,she had made friends with lots of bird.her best friend were LUSY(Golden bird).she shared everything about Narcissus.
Finally one lucky day while playing with LUSY,she reached at the bank of the CIAO Island,and she saw to the Narcissus.she felt such a pleasure inside her heart that she forgot everything about the world.now she is in such a state that she dont know any thing other than her name.but she is not in the state of realising that state.
She tried to recall the name of the person but she cant able to do that.now she is left with only option to call her name and she did.she called himself by her name and shouted" La Isla...LaIsla.....LaIsla ...............
the word La Isla reached to Narcissus and suddenly he tried to recall the name La Isla but he cant able to do that........his heart was filled with the name of La Isla but his eyes mad him blind to believe that what he is looking inside the water is the most beautiful thing not the La Isla.
Now both Narcissus and La Isla were standing in from of each other but both were lost in their own way.both try to figure out about each other but they are able to do that.
The world is so starange ,when and what never got a good luck to come together. True Love of a girl is the most pure sensation,and True love of a boy most pure affection.in life we are destined to get somthing,if we try hard then time must come to fulfill that dream. these are true for soulmates.because soulmates are destined to meet in the Heaven.and the heaven is a place on the earth.
And from that day they meet lots of time ,they try to recognise each other but they cant able to do that. the soul of Narcissus finally come inside the Narcissus and it compelled to the Narcissus and make her know about La Isla.and from that day they started to live their Love life the way they Destained.its really true that.....True Love never go in vain.

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Remember before falling in love…..



Love!…..o my god…its one of most powerful word of romance dictionary.its just not a word which has a simple meaning like most of the words we know in our daily life.its the most used word from our active vocabulary but most of the people define it in own way.ask someone “what you think what is love?”then you get variety of answers from different category of people.its most used and in the same time abused word.oh so you are thinking how we abuse it?you are right because at least you are thinking about my conceptions about Love.
I told abused in the sense that.people use to say lots of things like:love is waste of time and money,only love is not enough to live life happily,love can ruin your life.love is poison don’t touch it,love cant give you food and shelter to live life, etc.
In the same time you will also hear people saying that:love makes life beautiful,only lucky people get real love,everything is fare in love and war,love is divine,love is passion,love is the most key ingredient of life,lovers are made in heaven.etc
What you think who is right?what you think what is mystery about love.
So finally you are saying that both are right.i agree with you because you are not biased about the conception about love.i agree with you because you have perfect explanations for when love is divine and when it is poisonous.after going thru various conceptions and ideas about love.my conclusion is “Love is anything and everything whatever can you explain about it”any way i think Love is more platonic then sexual.it means feelings and passion with deep interest in someone’s intangible thing are more important then tangible I mean physical…I am not saying its not important I am saying it must be of secondary importance.if it is not it means lust is more heavy then love in that relationship.the magic is in affinity what you really feel in your inner heart.
Lets think something more precise and analytical perspective about love and its true meaning in our life…….
think about this statement “Love is a game of power between two people ,one who show affection first gives the total control
wow..what a powerful statement!is it one of the psychology behind love.what you think?so you are thinking that you never thought like that about love.no problem as I told you earlier love has different explanation in different context.lets come to the above statement.i think that the game starts from the time when you felt that you are delighted by that person.just remember in same time you have given your total control to that person.your happiness ,sorrow ,mood ,is impacted and depends on the person you are delighted. Have you thought why?how it happens?don't think its not matter of mind its matter of heart.we don’t possess clarity of thought about what our heart feel.we have a great command over mind then heart.you know why because we feel pleasure when we think through our heart not mind.mind is more analytical and descriptive but heart is more creative and intuitive.we have more command and maturity on our mind because we are practiced thru our education system or contemporary life but the heart don’t beat in the same speed as mind.why it is so?do you think we are partially desibled by our feelings in our heart.no…no..its not like that.it like chrales darwin theory of evolution.according to it”the development and evolution of anything depends on the comparative use “ it directly clear that we practice thing more thru our mind then heart that’s why we don’t possess conceptual command on our heart.
Now it is very clear why we didn’t realize when we had given our total control to other body when we fall in love.now move further.
What you think you have done something wrong by giving your control to others ..never think so because if you you don’t give your control you can’t feel the person you are in love.so the first lesson we learnt that love is giving not taking but is it like that the more give the more you get?..no no…..it is madness because after giving your everything what left with you..so never give anything.now you are thing that what really I want to state..
I want to state that think before fall in love think about the person you are in love.are you really ready to confess that this is the most admired and charming person in your life you have ever seen…if not so don’t fall in love.because its just mere a mixture of attraction and infatuation..and it will die shortly.
According to Alberoni, falling in love is a rapid process of destruction-reorganization called the nascent state. In the nascent state, a state of pure creative energy, the individual loses his or her previous identity, and becomes highly fluid and capable of merging with another person to create a new "us," a unit of two that is highly charged with solidarity and eroticism. The new couple realizes their dreams, aspirations, and unexpressed potential through one another, and develops a shared life project and common view of the world. Individuals in the nascent state put one another through tests, which if successful eventually give way to a solid love relationship, and the forming of new identities and life structures formed by the merging of the two individuals.
Remember this and keep it to your heart. Love has its time, its own season, its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into staying. You can
only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and always will be a mystery. BE GLAD THAT IT CAME TO LIVE
FOR A MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE.
If you keep you heart open, it will come again..